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Memorial Services...
IT IS AN HONOR TO ME TO OFFICIATE AT MEMORIAL SERVICES AT A VARIETY OF SITES IN SAN DIEGO. ALSO, I HAVE SPOKEN AT MEMORIALS IN ENGLAND.
LOCALLY MEMORIALS ARE OFTEN AT GREENWOOD MORTUARY (DIGNITY), THE NEPTUNE SOCIETY AND AT FORT ROSECRANS NATIONAL CEMETARY.
PLEASE CALL ME AT: 619.462.5539 TO PLAN A SERVICE FOR YOUR DECEASED LOVED ONE. TYPICAL PHONE CONVERSATIONS INCLUDE UNDERSTANDING AND SYMPATHY. DILOGUE IS CONTINUED IN EMAILS WHEN FURTHER INFORMATION IS SENT TO ME AND USED IN THE SERVICES.
A TYPICAL PROCEDURE IN A MEMORIAL SERVICE.
1.I MEET THE FAMILY OF THE DECEASED 30 MINUTES BEFORE THE SERVICE.
2.IT IS MY PRACTICE TO CONFIRM COORDINATION OF THE SERVICE WITH ON SITE
PERSONEL.
3.THE SERVICE BEGINS WITH MILITARY HONORS WHEN THEY ARE INCLUDED.
4.A BRIEF PRAYER IS FOLLOWED BY AN INTRODUCTION TO THE SERVICE.
5.INFORMATION AND STORIES ARE RELATED BY FAMILY MEMBERS OR OTHERS. OR,
I READ INFORMATON GIVEN TO ME.
6.AT SOME SITES SLIDE SHOWS ARE SHOWN ON SCREENS.
7.NON-DENOMINATIONAL COMMENTS ARE MADE URGING THOSE IN ATTENDANCE TO:
A.VALUE LIFE
B.TO HOLD ON TO EACH OTHER WITH HUMILITY AND LOVE
C. IT IS A PROPER TIME TO LEARN ABOUT TRUE VALUES.
8.OTHERS ARE GIVEN AN OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE BRIEF COMMENTS.
9.THE SERVICE IS CONCLUDED WITH PRAYER.
NOTE:
AN AUDIO CD OF THE MEMORIAL IS OFFERED AS AN OPTION TO THE FAMILY WHEN
WE PLAN THE SERVICE.
COMMENTS BY FAMILIES OF PREVIOUS MEMORIALS:
Thanks once again for honoring my parents yesterday. You reminded us
all of how we need to continue to live life to the fullest that is what
our love ones would want and to fulfill our purposes in life. Have a
blessed day. ---------------
First of all I wish to thank you for the beautiful service! I just replayed
the CD and I am truly grateful that you provided that for my memories.
Although it was quite windy I feel that it was God's work that the rain
was delayed.
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I've been procrastinating sending you a thank you note for performing my dad's funeral service (Wilbert Iwami) back